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It may not seem relevant to you but some gays and lesbians have gotten sex changes so they can get married since marriage is between a man and a woman. Now if someone is already of trans sexual nature, I suppose that would make sense.

Don’t ask me how but this topic came up in online debate of gay and lesbian marriages and the civil rights. And it seems that if trans sexuals can get married why not gays and lesbian? Interesting point, but how many people are actually genetically qualified to be called transsexual? Well one person stated;

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“I didn’t know what “transsexuality” meant. I didn’t realize I wasn’t supposed to be a girl. I really did think I’d just become a girl as I aged. So I was pretty ignorant of some things. But that doesn’t mean I wasn’t a queer kid and would have been much better off had all this been understood and accepted by people.”

Indeed and this is your story, but the 1-2% which is actually like this in any species is not the 6-8% which are calling themselves gay now or being labeled as such by peers for giving into the temptation and hormonal changes of adolescence or the new found availability of such potential partners willing to satisfy a curiosity.

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All species from butterflies up have a percentage, which is dissimilar, those unique characteristics should be honored not chastised as uniqueness makes the whole stronger. Uniqueness is a good think in society; the meatheads in life just have not figured it out yet.

Yet this transsexual felt differently than science explains this phenomena; “You’re not even in the right ballpark when it comes to me. Being trans has almost nothing to do with “sexual experimentation”. Trans people are barely on the radar screen of bigots at this point — we’re still in a situation of almost total invisibility in mainstream culture although it’s certainly starting to change.”

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It seems in going over this issue there is a gap between public understanding of transsexuals, their own understanding of themselves and how the biological scientific community understands these issues. So we must indeed consider all this.

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Why get married if it does not mean anything any more? Why stay married if no one seems to care? Why get married if marriage is no longer between a man and woman. Marriage is between a man and a woman, indeed the way nature had intended it to be.

Recently when I mentioned to a gay and lesbian activist, actually a stated transsexual, that the gay fringe was causing a huge rift between the straight and gay populations, she, he or it? Stated that “You really think you have a knack for dividing queer people, don’t you? It really is something.”

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Meaning, that my comment was trying to divide their groupings. Interesting as she, he or it, or whatever seemed to consider my observations were to attack, divide and conquer the gay community. Well, no, yet I understand having studied Machiavellian Theory, Sun Tzu, Carl von Clauswitz, Colonel Boyd, Primate Politics and Guerilla Warfare what it was saying here. And I am sorry if it took it that way.

Indeed my only comment here is that the fringe group, who will violate others rights and break the law to push their agenda, is doing so at the expense of your group and indeed causing the G & L Community to look rather unfit to lead. I suggested mentoring this fringe and even using their abundant energies to propel your agenda, rather than allowing it to create such random animosity that it turns off the silent majority to listen to their reasoning.

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So, in actuality one could say that I was helping their cause not hurting it, with relevant issues, observation and advice. You see, if gays and lesbians get married, who cares? Doesn’t matter to me one bit. But I just do not see it happening right now or soon if the fringe keeps setting back the voice of reason and a rational call for equal rights under the law. Pointing that fact out is hardly anti-gay, bigotry or homophobic. Consider this in 2006.

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The sanctity of marriage is said to be under fire in our nation and indeed the gay and lesbian community are often blamed by the Christians, as they complain of this problem. Marriage is considered between a man and a woman. But there is a problem brewing, one we have a politically active gay and lesbian community and within their group is a fringe element which is really seemingly out of control in many regards, using threats, extortion tactics and slanderous remarks at a drop of the hat.

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You see, I am a futurist Jen, I watch trends, I see things like this in the future. Indeed my goal is to hope someone reads this and gets together to mentor the fringe so they do not take it upon themselves to take their frustration and anger to the next level and really mess things up for everyone. I am seriously worried that the gay fringe, which I mentioned has members who will commit violent acts. I see it plain as day.

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All the warning signs are there it is only a matter of when. Just like before the Colombine School Shootings. But it can be prevented; I know it can. Someone needs to sit down with these folks and talk with them. When violence events like this occur they will make national news, the TV loves chaos and controversy, but it will be also at the expense of the G & L Communities goals for lawful marriage. We must be careful of this social time bomb ticking and watch closely the fringe and the trends, so indeed consider all this in 2006.

Lance Winslow

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